I can't imagine life without onions and other allium family members, so they'd have to come first on my list.
Remember, folks, the time for ramps is not far away.
If we're including tomatoes and produce treated as a vegetable, mushrooms are a close second. Life without oyster, enoki and other very subtle, delicate varieties would be fine. Give me porcini.
Next, red kuri winter squash, though I adore plale yellow sweet potatoes, too.
Asparagus used to be my favorite green vegetable, but I've grown tired of it now that it is available all year round. I still go nuts when the stubby, glossy, red-tipped ones appear at the farmers market. Anyone unimpressed by the
Zuni Cafe Cookbook hasn't made the asparagus soup with (onions and) pancetta hours after returning from Mt. Pleasant or Dupont Circle.
Now, I'd have to say artichokes are my favorite green vegetable. Any and every way, though vignarola, a Roman vegetarian stew with artichokes, fava beans, peas, potatoes, olive oil, mint and, yes, onions, is a new favorite with lots of crusty bread and white wine; a plate of prosciutto and olives first. Strawberries (another vegetable) for dessert.
Arugula and spinach are my favorite leafy greens and eggplant my favorite ohhh, white, lavendar, purple or mottled spongy thing to fry, sauté, roast or bake as long it is soaking up other flavors that make it taste better a day or two later.
Normally, I'd say green beans are the most boring and dispensable. Never buy them at the supermarket, or hardly ever. However, the Jades from New Morning (the farm) are wonderfully flavorable and eating a good salade nicoise is a summertime ritual. The biggest indulgence, though, are the haricot verts from Spring Valley Farm that Eli Cook sells for $18 a pound. Stew them in olive oil and garlic forever until they're army green mush. Plenty of salt. Don't even bother with the traditional tomatoes.