QUOTE(zoramargolis @ Jul 12 2008, 09:48 AM)

Most traditional curries and dals are built on a base of ghee--clarified butter. And in upscale restaurants, the dishes with creamy sauces like kormas have --guess what-- heavy cream in them.
One thing I discovered while making Ethiopian food at home is that it, too, uses a large amount of butter.
When I lost a lot of weight on a lowfat diet several years ago, my husband (who did not need to lose weight), lost weight too, and his cholesterol dropped from a bit high to the normal range. We hardly ate out at all, since I was being careful and there was no way to know what was going into restaurant foods. My one splurge would be to go to Montmarte, which, at that time, had salmon with leeks and wheatberries on the menu, a preparation that seemed healthy enough that I didn't concern myself with the amount of fat that might have been added in cooking.
I need to dig out my lowfat recipes again. There were some pretty good ones I relied on. There's a Mayo Clinic/Wms Sonoma Cookbook that has some nice lowfat recipes, a lowfat Moosewood cookbook I liked, and a few spa cookbooks (hit or miss overall but with some good recipes).
My recollection is that for meats I used a lot of ground turkey (breast with some thigh meat, since otherwise there's no fat at all) and pork tenderloin. I also employed a tasting menu approach, making small amounts of different lowfat foods (and a few pieces of "good" fat items such as avocado and nuts), all artfully arranged on the plate.