Antonio Burrell Posted April 23, 2014 Posted April 23, 2014 I got to thinking as I do from time to time about the things that formed me as a person. From how I view life in general and more lately thinking about what formed the paradigm through which I see food. I thought it'd be interesting for all of us to exchange stories about what made us love food first. What memories do you tie to specific people and times, good or bad, funny or somber. Share them all. Let's all get back to what this community was founded on. Good food, good conversations about said food and meeting people who like the same shit you do. Everybody chime in and let's find out how similar we are.I'll start with two particular memories: 1) the love I have of fresh off the vine, perfectly ripe and warm tomatoes and cucumbers, washed and slice. Dressed simply with salt, vinegar and pepper if you wish. The tomatoes so juicy that it makes its own sauce with the vinegar. The salty bursting through in pockets, the cucumber so crisp, a quick pickle in its simplest. 4-5 things top all perfect. Love it. 2) I always associate bryers ice cream with my Grandfather Luther. My Granddaddy. Well when I was just a wee lass, my Grandaddy used to take me to the store and let me pick out a half gallon of icecream. In the beginning it was Pine State which was awesome and then later it got to be Breyers cause it's what replaced Pine State at the store. I always got to pick the flavor although sometimes he'd hint at something. It was usually chocolate or mint chocolate chip. Every night of my vacation to the farm, after my bath, he'd sit me on his lap next to the freezer in the dining room. It'd just be me and him by the light filtering in from the kitchen, eating ice cream, taking turns feeding each other and rapping about life.So that's the kinda stuff I'm talking about. You wanna share life shattering stories about some restaurant you visited that changed your life? Fine I guess but..snooze alert. I don't care about that stuff, we wanna know the real you. The online real you anyway. Share away peeps... 1 1
Rovers2000 Posted April 23, 2014 Posted April 23, 2014 I thought this was a pretty cool topic to start the day off...two things come to mind for me - and I don't know if they shaped me as much as they're so completely burned in my brain that I can't help but think of the memory whenever the food presents itself: 1. When I was little, my grandfather used to take me to this restaurant in Stroudsburg PA called "Routsens" (sp?) that was on the bottom floor of a department store. Every single time he ordered scrapple with poached eggs and I can directly trace my love of both to those mornings with him. Whether it was "healthy" for me is another thing , but every time I see it on the menu I'm likely to order it as it very clearly reminds me of my grandfather. 2. Growing up, Saturday mornings usually consisted of some sort of sports practice immediately followed by cutting our lawn (we had about a half acre). EVERY Saturday for lunch without fail my mom served my dad and I tuna sandwiches on toast, with lettuce (pickle and utz chips on the side) and a Coca Cola. To this day when I'm running errands on a weekend, I tend to get a craving for that exact lunch. It's funny how not necessarily "great" food can be a catalyst for such vivid memories. I literally can picture both the old restaurant that is no longer there and the kitchen table where we at lunch perfectly when I think about those foods. 2
SeanMike Posted April 23, 2014 Posted April 23, 2014 When I was a kid, my dad used to take us to Hardee's for sausage gravy and biscuits before we'd go hunting. It was always such a treat. 1
JPW Posted April 23, 2014 Posted April 23, 2014 Summer 1993- Ripping the cartilage out of 20# of calimari every day or so as a cook at Jimmy Sea's Pan Pasta in Oak Bluffs, Martha's Vineyard. I can still summon up the memory of the smell that would linger on your skin even after you had showered. Helped confirm my decision to get out of the business and go to grad school. My grandfather's martini ritual which would always start with my grandmother saying to him "Father, do you think that it's time for some refreshment?" "Yes, mother." 1
dcandohio Posted April 23, 2014 Posted April 23, 2014 A few personal favorites: My dad used to have a crawfish boiling "vessel" made of a retired beer keg. He'd fire up a gas burner on the weekend, buy a sack of live crawfish, throw in several packages of Zatarains "crab boil" seasoning, and the men in the neighborhood would drink beer and tend to the boil. The smell of that steaming, Zatarain-infused brew full of crawfish, lemons, onions and potatoes was the true sign of spring. It meant strawberries were plentiful from trucks on the side roads, school was almost over and swimming season was near. When I return to New Orleans, if I catch the smell of crawfish boiling (the tell-tale Zatarains perfume particularly), I get a lump in my throat. My mom made toasted cheese frequently as breakfast. None of us kids liked cereal or sweet stuff, and quick, cheap breakfasts were probably a challenge. So toasted cheese, made under the gas broiler in the oven, was the default. The smell of cheese melting under a broiler just makes me smile. When I was in graduate school, and I was poor, my also-poor friends and I always splurged on Thursdays when a local campus pizza place had half-priced pitchers of beer. We'd get a couple of extra-large pizzas...those thin, super-cheesy, sweet-sauced, slightly greasy pizzas redolent of oregano...and unwind. We'd laugh till my stomach hurt, and I always left with a warm glow of friendship and shared struggle. Every so often, a certain kind of pizza, usually offered at a bar, is exactly the same as "grad school" pizza. And even though I prefer a much higher quality pizza now, those pizzas do bring me right back to a table crowded with convivial grad students laughing their asses off. 3
Rieux Posted April 23, 2014 Posted April 23, 2014 Here are a few: As a 13-18 year old I used to help my father cook Sunday dinner (usually something complex) on Sunday nights while he drank a glass of wine and we listened to the NPR music program Echoes (which played really interesting, out-there music). I vividly remember the fun and closeness we shared on those Sunday evenings. As any Italian-American kid can tell you, we all remember our Mom's breaded chicken cutlets with lemon, and no matter what the skill of our mom was, we think hers were the best. Still, a breaded chicken cutlet instantly makes me feel safe, cozy, and loved. If I have a really bad day and need to feel better, this is a food I will go to. Also, I remember huge feasts at my grandmother's with lasagne, eggplant rollatini, tons of chicken, pork chops, and sunday gravy, bread, cannoli, cookies, etc. An Italian-American's dream. When I lived in Spain on my junior year our program took us to the Rioja region and we had a multi-hour, multi course meal at the CUNE winery after a VIP tour of the cellar. We ate a ton of things that day, with copious amounts of wine, cigars, and brandy. It was the first time I felt like a real grown up in my own bacchanalia, and it instilled in me a desire to have this experience again and again. And, finally, while it may not be the best food in the world, I can think of nothing better than sitting around one of the round tables at Bistrot du Coin with 7 friends, drinking wine, eating too much, talking and joking. That's the type of thing that cements an urban family (of friends) and that reminds you that it is good to be alive. 1
bettyjoan Posted April 23, 2014 Posted April 23, 2014 My grandmother is at the center of so many great food memories - her kitchen may have been old and teeny tiny, but man, did it smell good when she was making home fries. She also made these amazing baked clams - I got the recipe from her before she died, but I have never been able to truly recreate them. I have mastered her Manhattan clam chowder, thankfully - she passed the recipe down to my dad, and he finally taught it to me about 5 years ago. I loved visiting grandma in the late summer, when tomatoes were plump and fresh and all they needed was salt and pepper (or perhaps to be made into a sandwich with just a little mayo), and when New York corn was sweet and plentiful. Then again, I loved visiting her in the fall, when we would go to Richter's apple orchard for the best cider around. When I was a kid, my parents wouldn't let me have any junky breakfast cereals, but I could always count on granny to stock Cocoa Krispies for my visits. It was our little secret, though my mom and dad had to have known how much she spoiled me. Even when I was grown, if she knew I was coming, she'd always make sure to have some little treat like that in the house for me. As my grandmother got older and didn't cook as much, she gave her old, perfectly-seasoned cast-iron pan (that she used for fried chicken) to my father. When he got to the airport, the TSA agent said he couldn't carry it on the plane. Instead of going back and checking his bag, he left the pan there at LGA. I have never forgiven him - that was a piece of our family history! Grumble grumble... 3
zoramargolis Posted April 23, 2014 Posted April 23, 2014 As my grandmother got older and didn't cook as much, she gave her old, perfectly-seasoned cast-iron pan (that she used for fried chicken) to my father. When he got to the airport, the TSA agent said he couldn't carry it on the plane. Instead of going back and checking his bag, he left the pan there at LGA. I have never forgiven him - that was a piece of our family history! Grumble grumble... That's a heartbreaking story. More than just a piece of family history, he threw away a treasured heirloom. I hope that he knows that serious amends need to be made. 2
Tweaked Posted April 23, 2014 Posted April 23, 2014 After suffering through truly awful food at college, some friends and I set out on our own and rented an apartment. One of my best friends is half-Indian and his father taught us how to make Indian food. One busy Sunday afternoon at the grocery store, student after student was checking out with their boxes of ramen noodles, cup-o-soups, and frozen dinners, we pull up with a cart loaded down with onions,tomatoes, potatoes, chili peppers, garlic, ginger, cilantro, cucumbers, yogurt, chicken, lamb, rice...all the fixings we needed for an Indian feast. The cashier looked us up and down, laughed, and said, "You guys can cook?!?" and off we went to spend the rest of the day cooking for the week. A bunch of college students kicking around a shitty college apartment kitchen, eating Lays potato chips, drinking beer, and cooking chicken curry and lamb biriyani. To this day, Indian is still my favorite cuisine to cook. 4
johnb Posted April 23, 2014 Posted April 23, 2014 My Mom didn't enjoy cooking too much and her food showed it, but her fried chicken was great and I've never been able to duplicate it. But my earliest food and family memory was during visits to my cousin in St. Louis when I was really young. There were other relatives living there, one of which was an aunt of my Mother's who we would occasionally visit. When we did she always made chocolate pudding for us kids. She timed it to our arrival, so it was always still warm and soft, each serving in its own little cup. So good. That was the one of the best things I can remember from that time in my life. Much much later in the mid-60's when I was in grad school in New York and getting interested in fine dining, there was a restaurant, well-regarded among the food cognoscenti of the time, called The Coach House. James Beard himself was known to often dine there, and I remember once seeing him, dining alone. It was the era of classical French restaurants, but Coach House was among the first to elevate American cuisine to haut level. They made these cornsticks, and were they good. Any meal there for me meant repeated orders of cornsticks. The place is long gone; its space is now occupied by Mario Batall's Babbo. 1
Xochitl10 Posted April 24, 2014 Posted April 24, 2014 When I was a kid, we would travel from New Mexico to Ohio every summer to spend two weeks with my maternal grandparents. That was two weeks out of every year that we got to drink Vernor's ginger ale, which a) actually tasted like ginger; was way more delicious than Canada Dry; and c) was not available in New Mexico. We also had our choice, most nights, of one of my grandmother's special desserts: lemon cake (which was totally the one involving a lemon cake mix and lemon Jello) or fudgy brownies. To this day, I love lemon desserts and chocolate, particularly fudgy brownies. And I can't be bothered with cakey brownies. And now I want a Vernor's and a slice of lemon cake. One of my greatest regrets in life is food-related. My Mexican grandmother made wonderful flour tortillas for my grandfather's meals every day. She'd also make tamales, empanadas, sopa de albondigas (meatball soup), and fideos (vermicelli in a light tomato sauce) at Christmas. I never learned to cook from her, and by the time I was interested, she was no longer able to cook. Some things, like calabacitas (squash and corn) and sopa de albondigas, I've figured out myself or found recipes for, while I leave the tortillas to Azami. 1
Antonio Burrell Posted April 24, 2014 Author Posted April 24, 2014 Here's a funny lil tidbit. I have been a cook for 20 or so of my 38/9 years of life on this earth. To. This. Day. If more than 4 of my Aunts get in a room, I suddenly know nothing about cooking and am allowed to touch nothing :-) and I love it. One day I'll tell ya my whole hog story 8
Antonio Burrell Posted April 24, 2014 Author Posted April 24, 2014 When I was a kid, my dad used to take us to Hardee's for sausage gravy and biscuits before we'd go hunting. It was always such a treat. My Mom always got me hot ham and cheese from Hardee's cause I loovvved ham and cheese when I was like 6 or so. Also....When my dad and I would go hunting/fishing at the ass cracked of dawn, my Mommy always made me a sausage, fried egg, mustard on wheat toast sandwich. Two of em, wrapped seperately. I would usually barely function as I put on my seat belt, but as we got rolling, I'd eat one of those sandwiches and watch the scenery and just talk to my Dad. Still love sausage and mustard to this day as a breakfast sandwich.
DC Deb Posted April 24, 2014 Posted April 24, 2014 My first memory of wanting to cook was a food demo at a department store. It was for an immersion blender. I was 7 or 8 and thought it was the coolest thing. 1
porcupine Posted April 24, 2014 Posted April 24, 2014 At age 5 or 6, standing on a stool peeling carrots over the sink at my aunt's house; Mom was worried that I'd hurt myself, but Aunt Jean said "no, look at her go, she's doing fine!" Waking up Saturday mornings to the sound of the stand mixer going and wondering what Mom was making for that night's dessert. Finding real Maryland crab at the Stop & Shop in Boston when I was in college and couldn't afford such an extravagance, buying it anyway, and making crab cakes for my roommate, who was from Wisconsin and didn't like crab... until that night. We gave the container to the cat, who spent hours (it seemed) trying to lick it clean. The time I went with my husband to a real Chinese restaurant for dim sum from carts, a totally new experience for us. Neither of us could use chopsticks but we were both too shy to ask for forks. It was a long, messy meal. For a few months after whenever I made spaghetti for dinner I set the table with chopsticks, until we got the hang of using them. 3
zoramargolis Posted April 24, 2014 Posted April 24, 2014 When we were first married, J. and I left Vermont during mud season (early spring) and drove south to Charleston, SC for the annual azalea festival. On the way back north, we drove through the Outer Banks. The road had been closed because of a hurricane and had just re-opened. The campground we found was deserted. The tideline of the beach was piled with detritus that had washed up in the storm. We drove to the nearest town and stopped in a small market to ask about buying some local oysters. The manager of the market gave us directions to the nearby home of a local waterman, who might have some. We drove to the man's house. He had just been out that morning, and sold us a "half-bushel"-- a corrugated cardboard carton-ful-- for $5. On our way back to the campground, we stopped and bought an oyster knife and some lemons. And after wandering along the beach searching for shells and for whale and dolphin vertebrae, we sat in our tent and J. opened oysters and I dripped lemon juice on them and we slurped our fill of incredibly fresh briny oysters until we were completely stuffed. It seemed as if we had hardly made a dent in our supply. The next morning, I made fried oysters and scrambled eggs on our camp stove. And we still had a lot of oysters left in the box. By that time, I couldn't even think about eating another one. By the time we packed up the car, another couple had pulled up to the campground, and we gave them the rest of the oysters and the knife to open them with. 1
SeanMike Posted April 24, 2014 Posted April 24, 2014 My Mom always got me hot ham and cheese from Hardee's cause I loovvved ham and cheese when I was like 6 or so. I do miss Hardee's sometimes. When I was in high school, I was in all of the music ensemble "zero period" classes before school - woodwind, brass, and percussion (I played percussion in all three). I'd often pick up one of my friends and we'd stop at Hardee's for pork or chicken biscuits and a big cup of sweet tea. I imagine if I ate that today it'd wreck me (and the last time I went to Hardee's for breakfast, it was disappointing) but back in those days, I could eat about anything...the joys of being 17.
Andelman Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 I do miss Hardee's sometimes. When I was in high school, I was in all of the music ensemble "zero period" classes before school - woodwind, brass, and percussion (I played percussion in all three). I'd often pick up one of my friends and we'd stop at Hardee's for pork or chicken biscuits and a big cup of sweet tea. I imagine if I ate that today it'd wreck me (and the last time I went to Hardee's for breakfast, it was disappointing) but back in those days, I could eat about anything...the joys of being 17. Funny about Hardee's. One of my food memories growing up was stopping for early breakfast at the Hardee's in Annapolis before going sailing with my dad. We always got the "steak" biscuit, with was some sort of breaded/country fried steak-type thing. I used to put ketchup on it. So, so good... 1
DaveO Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 Here are a few: As a 13-18 year old I used to help my father cook Sunday dinner (usually something complex) on Sunday nights while he drank a glass of wine and we listened to the NPR music program Echoes (which played really interesting, out-there music). I vividly remember the fun and closeness we shared on those Sunday evenings. As any Italian-American kid can tell you, we all remember our Mom's breaded chicken cutlets with lemon, and no matter what the skill of our mom was, we think hers were the best. Still, a breaded chicken cutlet instantly makes me feel safe, cozy, and loved. If I have a really bad day and need to feel better, this is a food I will go to. Also, I remember huge feasts at my grandmother's with lasagne, eggplant rollatini, tons of chicken, pork chops, and sunday gravy, bread, cannoli, cookies, etc. An Italian-American's dream. When I lived in Spain on my junior year our program took us to the Rioja region and we had a multi-hour, multi course meal at the CUNE winery after a VIP tour of the cellar. We ate a ton of things that day, with copious amounts of wine, cigars, and brandy. It was the first time I felt like a real grown up in my own bacchanalia, and it instilled in me a desire to have this experience again and again. And, finally, while it may not be the best food in the world, I can think of nothing better than sitting around one of the round tables at Bistrot du Coin with 7 friends, drinking wine, eating too much, talking and joking. That's the type of thing that cements an urban family (of friends) and that reminds you that it is good to be alive. All of the above stories are moving and great. I liked this one because....as a Jewish American kid (who grew up in heavily Italian American influenced areas in the NY metro region) I had several great memories. My dad generally worked 6 days a week, but on Sunday's he would often start the day visiting a local deli to get food for Sunday mornings. Bagels, cheeses, lox of several types, various smoked fish, etc. I went with him to that deli a lot. It seems the same guy always served him. That fellow had the same first name as my father and a very big lower lip. They'd kibbutz. He'd slice lox and have us taste it. He'd advise on the best of smoked fish. Those were big great breakfasts. So many Sundays. A great way to start off a great day. My mom always told us she was a miserable cook, but by the time we were kids she was a noted good cook and she also filled the table w/ huge quantities of food. Two of her best dishes were remarkably and exactly like her mom's two best dishes, chicken fricassee and chicken soup. They were masterpieces. She did a lot of other good meals. She was great w/ a variety of Italian styled veal dishes. She did some wonderful pastas. She soaked up the best of the neighborhood and region. We'd occasionally hit this amazing family style Italian restaurant in Newark, NJ. I was pretty sure there were mafioso there even as I was a young kid. The place was a BYOB type of place. When we went there a lot of guys would know my dad. I knew they weren't his friends or family. LOL They introduced my parents to the owners and had them "take care of us". My dad was a partner in a little business located in Newark for probably about 20+ years following WWII I know he was paying the mafia protection money. I guess these guys "liked him". The food there was simply unbelievable. Beyond that of any other place I had experienced. It was really a family restaurant, not extravagant or fancy and in less than a stellar location. They made a dish I can't forget and am trying to replicate. I so wish I had gotten an original recipe. Of recent I'm trying to replicate it. My attempts are passable but not close to that dining nirvana. The dish was called chicken oreganata and there are a myriad of recipes on the web. I've tried a variety and they don't quite get there in terms of what I recall from my youth and at a couple of other similar type restaurants in the NY metro area so many years ago. It was a good area to grow up in from a food perspective and my mom could really load the table w/ wonderful foods. 1
Pat Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 Friday mornings my mom and I would go grocery shopping with her mother, with whom she was very close. This was when I was quite young, as my grandmother died when I was nine. My grandparents lived about 7 miles away from us, but the store we went to was closer to where they lived than to us. We would head back to my grandparents' house for lunch, where my mom would put our perishables in their refrigerator or freezer. My grandmother would make either tuna fish sandwiches (on white toast, I'm pretty sure) or grilled cheese. After some socializing, we'd get our stored groceries and go home. Since I would have only been doing this during summers and holidays once I started school full time in first grade, many of my memories of this go back to before I was six years old. For pretty much the rest of my mother's life, she always did grocery shopping on Fridays. While I lived at home, we went after school during the school year and in the mornings otherwise. When I was in high school, I'd walk down to our town's supermarket after school and meet her to go grocery shopping. Once I was an adult living away from home, I still went grocery shopping on Fridays for a long time. I rarely do now, since traffic is usually less crazy other days. 3
Popular Post porcupine Posted May 2, 2014 Popular Post Posted May 2, 2014 Mom made the best angel food cake. People who claimed not to like angel food changed their minds after eating hers. I remember coming home from school to find her sitting in a kitchen chair, towel on lab, beating a dozen egg whites with a big whisk in the biggest mixing bowl. Or sometimes I'd come home and she'd immediately yell at me "don't slam the door!". Angel food has to cool upside down in the pan, you see, and a door slamming could cause it to fall out. Or so she believed. Making one was such a physical effort, she only did it once or twice a year. I was always too intimidated to try it myself. Too much work, too many things to do wrong. But then one day I said "f**k it", and tried making the meringue in the Kitchen Aid. It worked! I called her to tell her about my discovery; she didn't believe that it could have been any good, so of course I had to drive over with a piece for her to try. Thereafter she used her Kitchen Aid, too -but only for that first step. Tonight I served angel food cake to friends, including one who claims not to like cake. He likes this one, though. Few things make me happy like seeing friends happy eating what I've cooked for them. Thanks, Mom. 10
Joe H Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 My Mom didn't enjoy cooking too much and her food showed it, but her fried chicken was great and I've never been able to duplicate it. But my earliest food and family memory was during visits to my cousin in St. Louis when I was really young. There were other relatives living there, one of which was an aunt of my Mother's who we would occasionally visit. When we did she always made chocolate pudding for us kids. She timed it to our arrival, so it was always still warm and soft, each serving in its own little cup. So good. That was the one of the best things I can remember from that time in my life. Much much later in the mid-60's when I was in grad school in New York and getting interested in fine dining, there was a restaurant, well-regarded among the food cognoscenti of the time, called The Coach House. James Beard himself was known to often dine there, and I remember once seeing him, dining alone. It was the era of classical French restaurants, but Coach House was among the first to elevate American cuisine to haut level. They made these cornsticks, and were they good. Any meal there for me meant repeated orders of cornsticks. The place is long gone; its space is now occupied by Mario Batall's Babbo. This is a great thread. But I cannot help but react to the powerful image of James Beard...dining alone. 1
dinoue Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 For me it was hanging out in my grandparents chop suey restaurant on the south side of Chicago. I would help out with packing rice cartons and such and my grandmother always cooked stuff for me, especially my favorite pepper steak. I remember once asking for eggs for breakfast and getting egg foo young. Also there was going to Chinatown and not wanting to eat Chinese food. I was a fussy eater as a kid and only liked steak and potatoes so my grandmother would always make sure that we had what was called Hong Kong steak for family banquets so that I would eats something. I would kill now to get some of the other stuff I refused to eat back then. Also grew up with both parents doing cooking. Whenever we had Japanese food, my dad would do the cooking as well as for standards such as Saturday chicken noodle soup which culminated in sitting around the table pulling chicken meat and skin off the carcass used for the broth and eating it right off the bone with salt and pepper. About as simple but pure a taste you can get. 3
weezy Posted May 4, 2014 Posted May 4, 2014 My mom was a good cook, not a great one (cooking for 7 including 3 teenage boys every night made quantity prep the biggest focus), and didn't like fussy dishes - no wine sauces, no garlic anything. But she grew up on a farm and really taught me how to select good meats and produce when shopping, and the joys of simple, straightforward recipes where the ingredients sing, and all vegetables are better with butter & lemon juice on them. I finally have replicated her tossed salad, always very simple but oh so good, with an olive oil & lemon juice dressing made right on the greens, not pre-mixed in any way. She also grew up in an era when pork was cooked to death, and I remember the patty sausages at breakfast that she cooked until "crispy" on the edges -- leathery, swollen spicy pucks of pork sausage. She never understood why I liked the link sausage so much better. Dinners were always a meat, a cooked green veg, a starch, usually a salad in summer, and a big crusty loaf of french or italian bread, sweet butter and a wedge of blue cheese to put on it, a couple of gallons of milk delivered from the Yoder Dairy (a Mennonite family), and seven of us with typically three competing conversations going on and my sister trying to make me laugh until I spit milk onto my father (who was not amused). 4
Tujague Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 Every fall, my mom would make homemade egg noodles in preparation for her annual Christmas Eve beef noodle soup. I don't remember watching her make the dough itself, but she would roll out it out paper thin and lay it out on newspapers across the dining room table to dry out. The soup itself was deceptively plain--I have no idea how she made it--but had a depth of flavor I have never since experienced. As I grew older and my palate developed, I came to crave that soup every year and when she died in 1997, I could barely get through Christmas because I just wanted to taste that fucking beef noodle soup one last time, and I still do. 5
Al Dente Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 Growing up in upstate NY back in the early 70's, my grandparents would take us to an Italian restaurant nearby every once in a great while. I can still conjure up the taste of their linguini with white clam sauce. I loved it and somehow knew that their food was a cut above the usual fare available elsewhere. My mom wasn't much of a cook, but she did make some killer chicken and dumplings. The downside was her affinity for canned Lima beans. I would gag at the dinner table. To this day, I think they were the most awful thing I've ever eaten. My dad was always insistent on me trying everything. I hated a lot of it (only to like most of it later in life), but I partially credit his effort for my interest in food as I got older. Oddly, he isn't much of a foodie. My strongest memory of this is trying oysters when he moved to Baltimore. I thought it was cool that I was the only kid at Lexington Market downing oyster after oyster. He even let me have a taste of his Natty Bo. 3
LauraB Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 My mom wasn't much of a cook, but she did make some killer chicken and dumplings. The downside was her affinity for canned Lima beans. I would gag at the dinner table. To this day, I think they were the most awful thing I've ever eaten. Oh, yeah, my mother served canned lima beans too, as well as canned beets. Emerging from childhood I thought there were 3 things I would never eat: lima beans, beets, and liver. Many years ago, I was at a dinner party and the hostess exclaimed excitedly that she was roasting beets. I thought to myself, "Oh, my God, how am I going to choke them down?" Well, of course, they were fantastic and I've loved beets ever since. A few years later, I encountered lima beans at an upscale restaurant. They were fresh, of course, and I really liked them. Not so much that I would seek them out over other beans, but I don't avoid them anymore. At a farewell party that German friends threw for me in Berlin as I was preparing to return to the U.S. after several years there, they announced with great fanfare that the main course was liver in a curry sauce! I thought about feigning illness and fleeing, but fortunately, I stayed and took a very tentative bite and kind of liked it. It's sad how bad childhood experiences can taint our feelings about certain foods. And, unless we're forced into trying them, we may never know what we're missing. And then there are good childhood experiences! I don't think my grandma was a world-class cook, by any means, but boy could she make a great rhubarb pie with rhubarb she grew in her backyard. I can still see and taste those pies. Rhubarb remains one of my favorite foods. She also grew tomatoes and she used to pay me and my sisters 5 cents for every tomato hornworm we could locate "“ luckily, we didn't have to actually touch the worms, just alert her to their presence and she would dispatch them with great glee. Her meatloaf, which she cooked in a pressure cooker, was fantastic to my childhood palate "“ it was slathered in a homemade tomato sauce (no doubt made from the tomatoes in her yard) and accompanied by potatoes that were also prepared in the pressure cooker. I was scared of that pressure cooker, but wow, I loved the food that came out of it! She also made her own jams and jellies and, to this day, I miss her apple butter. In addition to her cooking, she taught me every card game I ever knew. She had so much life in her and I'm convinced that my lifelong love affair with food started with her. 3
Popular Post Antonio Burrell Posted May 8, 2014 Author Popular Post Posted May 8, 2014 It occurs to me as I read all these great memories is that in some way they all share the common bond I hoped they'd show, that we all have soo much in common when it comes to food. One of the things I find most touching are the memories of the people who taught you how "to eat". To not simply eat to nourish but to appreciate what has been given to you, to enjoy the time spent together, to enjoy the act of eating together. That's something we all definitely have in common. I remember when my paternal Grandmother Queen Ester was older, barely able to walk alot, I used to stay with her during the day and keep her company. Well, she also kept a nice lil garden down by the old house just a ways up the road. And every day during that summer vacation I walked her down to her lil garden, where my Uncle Evons' scuppernog vines are now, and help her pick baby white potatoes, green beans, okra, black eye peas...whatever was growing. And then we'd walk back to the house...just a moseing along. Then she'd take what we'd picked and make lunch with it. Okra with stewed to mates jarred the summer before, beans long simmered with fat back, squash caramelized with onions. All with these lil corn bread corn cake fry bread thing I've only seen in my family. That's some good eating. Knowing what was right to eat when and how. Also, she never said much and wasn't one to say I love ya alot but I knew she loved me cause from the age of 10 on she made me my own dozen biscuits for breakfast every morning. I loved her little hand pattied pockets of love. Made with lily white and lard, latter crisco, cut in with a fork, never measured, made with buttermilk. Warm with a sausage patty in it, square Bass Farms sausage was best, grits and molasses butter and I was a happy boy. I miss those biscuits. I can't make like that. Have never tried...Those will Always be hers. 12
lovehockey Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 My grandma made the best peanut butter and honey sandwiches. Laid the honey on thick, as it should be. To this day I make a PB&H with creamed honey because it goes on thick (for the record, I'm not a fan of PB&J). I also remember her big candy bowl of small Snickers bars, and over the course of one visit my 3 siblings and I cleaned that thing out. I certainly played a big role. She gave us flak for that. In a few weeks I'll be visiting her with my mom. She is in the late stages of dementia and has no clue who I am. 4
porcupine Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 My mother was the daughter of Lithuanian and Italian immigrants. She had an uncanny ability to execute any recipe perfectly. When we weren't having Hamburger Helper or Old El Paso type meals, she'd cook mostly from the original Gourmet cookbooks, which didn't list ingredients, they just started out with the instructions, like "sautee a handful of garlic in the fat rendered from a pound of bacon" or whatever. Fun recipes to read. But seriously, you could have handed her a Mexican or Indian cookbook and if she could find the ingredients, she'd get the dish exactly right. The funny thing, though, is that like a lot of people from her time and place, she was a little embarrassed by her heritage, so she didn't often cook the foods she grew up eating. My parents fled small town Pennsylvania because they were tired of small-minded people. No-one expected their mixed marriage to work. No, I'm not half black; Mom was Catholic and Dad was Presbyterian. That was a mixed marriage to their people. Dad's family thought it was beneath him to marry a hunky (regional slang term for poor white Catholics). But their marriage did work, maybe because they'd moved the family to a more open-minded place (suburban Maryland), and every once in awhile Mom would cook something really, seriously ethnic. Lithuanian cabbage rolls, for example, or certain Italian dishes, like cappelletti en brodo every Christmas eve, or pumpkin filled tortelloni. For the most part, though, she just wanted to fit in, so only relatives and close family friends ever got to eat that type of food. So many of my food memories are tied up with memories of her. We broadened each others' horizons. She fell in love with Indian cuisine because when I was in high school I befriended an Indian girl and had dinner at her house one night, which led to my buying Madhur Jaffrey's An Invitation to Indian Cooking and surprising my parents by cooking them something from it, I don't remember what, biryani maybe? And thereafter my parents loved it when I cooked them Indian food or took them to an Indian restaurant. Then there's coffee... My parents were so nuts about coffee that even after we moved from Potomac to Gaitherspatch Mom would go grocery shopping once a week at this little shop in a big apartment building in Bethesda, because they carried Swing's coffee, and that was the best. (This was mid-1970s.) I carry on the tradition by driving to Qualia or Filter or Blind Dog or wherever to get good fresh coffee beans, about once a week. Today is the day after Mothers' Day and the eighth anniversary of my mother's death. I've been thinking about her all day and just felt the need to write something, somewhere. Thanks for indulging me. Hope this wasn't too maudlin or anything. 8
DonRocks Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 Dad's family thought it was beneath him to marry a hunky (regional slang term for poor white Catholics). Today is the day after Mothers' Day and the eighth anniversary of my mother's death. I've been thinking about her all day and just felt the need to write something, somewhere. Thanks for indulging me. Hope this wasn't too maudlin or anything. I can't believe it's been eight years. People that grew up being called hunkies are still *very* insulted by the term. My mom was half-Italian, half-Croatian, and I heard that term mentioned around her once - given the situation, it was topical, lighthearted and in jest, but she didn't even crack a smile. My mom was not a good cook (she worked full-time and raised three kids), but the one thing I'll always remember was her stuffed cabbages. Minute rice, ground beef, canned tomatoes - despite middling ingredients, this dish was in her blood, and she made it well. 1
Tujague Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 In her novella The Ponder Heart, Eudora Welty wrote one of my favorite character descriptions of all time, when her narrator Edna Earle Ponder describes Uncle Daniel Ponder's estranged bride Bonnie Dee Peacock as "curled up on Grandma's rosewood sofa . . . eating the kind of fudge anybody can make." My mom would have never stooped to making that kind of fudge, but her precisely cooked and beaten mixture of chocolate, butter, cream, and vanilla was my other highlight of every Christmas, and to this day no one in the family has quite been able to reproduce it, even as we all pronounced it the world's best. I suspect the secret was in the old Revereware pan she cooked it in (missing its Bakelite handle) and/or the silver spoon she beat it with--still one of my treasures, with the left edge of its bowl worn flat from the fearsome beating she gave to that hot chocolatey soup until it surrendered into a silky mass that melted the second it touched human lips. Nearly as impressive was her tissue-thin peanut brittle, stretched to its translucent limits by her buttered fingers that must have been utterly calloused from years of contact with the hot caramelized sugar. 5
JPW Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Dad's family thought it was beneath him to marry a hunky (regional slang term for poor white Catholics). <pedant> Actually it's about being Eastern European (especially Polish/Ukrainian). The Catholicism part is corollary (if you're Polish, you're Catholic). My WASP ancestors shat on the Italians and the Irish. The Irish and Italians needed to find some way to shit on the Poles and other Slavs who arrived a few decades later. "Hunky" or "bo-hunk" comes from the label of being "Bohemian and/or "Hungarian" and was later applied to all of the Slavs that immigrated to work in the mines/mills. When I was growing up, it was the equivalent of the N-word for those of Eastern European descent. It shifted into being a general term for teased hair, Chess King shopping, lower class mall rats (think Jersey Shore) without strict regard to ethnicity in the 80s. It was one thing for a boy higher up in the social order to screw a hunky girl, but god forbid a girl higher in the social order even be seen talking to a bo-hunk boy.</pedant> Sorry to hijack. It was a lovely story. I use your mom's stock pot and cuisinart on a regular basis and think of her and you when I do. : ) 2
Barbara Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Sorry to hijack. It was a lovely story. I use your mom's stock pot and cuisinart on a regular basis and think of her and you when I do. : ) I can't believe it's been eight years, either. Your mother's mini food processor is still going strong and has to proved to be very handy for our two-person household. Not to mention the other things we bought, which we use all the time.
porcupine Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Sorry to hijack. It was a lovely story. I use your mom's stock pot and cuisinart on a regular basis and think of her and you when I do. : ) No worries! I didn't mean for this to become the memorial to porcupine's mother thread. I'm glad you and Barbara are still using her stuff. Mom would have been appalled at my Blanche DuBois turn, but I learned something valuable through that whole experience, about the power of kindness and generosity. :-) Back to (happier) formative food memories. The time I had dinner at a friend's house and tried spoon bread for the first time. Her mother was from Atlanta. My introduction to Middle Eastern cuisine was through a friend whose mother came here from Armenia. I fell in love with Turkish Armenian coffee thanks to that family.
DonRocks Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 No worries! I didn't mean for this to become the memorial to porcupine's mother thread. I'm glad you and Barbara are still using her stuff. Mom would have been appalled at my Blanche DuBois turn, but I learned something valuable through that whole experience, about the power of kindness and generosity. :-) Back to (happier) formative food memories. Nonsense. It's a pleasure to talk about your mom, and it's especially nice that others in this community are putting her things to good use.
ktmoomau Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 My formative food memories: My Sister and Brother in Law's Italian (Greek) restaurant in Deep Creek Lake. I loved eating there. The greek dressing, stuffed clams, clam linguine, veal parm all such good stuff. The place had the worst restaurant uniforms and those ugly stained glass lights and thick carpet. In today's standards I am sure it would be quite tacky, but we loved it then and so did everyone else. There were huge windows that overlooked the lake. I got to help clean glasses behind the bar for part of my sister's tips. The best part was the ice cream, you could get a vanilla ice cream sundae with chocolate sauce for 10 cents. I loved this. They had Andes mints on the way out the door. To this day all those foods are things I love. We went here for most big family occasions, Dad's business dinners. I ate so many meals at the place, the sides of spaghetti you got with your entree were my school lunches on so many other days, the building still lives on in other incarnations, but nothing will ever be as good as the Silver Tree in my mind. My favorite foods were mostly from my Amish Nanny- snitz pies, pepperoni rolls, toast with strawberry freezer jam and a slice of colby cheese. Her apple sauce was made from early apples and is runny and thin, I love the taste. She made awesome pies, sticky buns, everything. But her homemade bread with strawberry freezer jam was the best. My grandad also made great freezer jam, I would eat it on white toast (which I never got to eat) with butter and his breakfasts he would make thick bacon, fried eggs, potatoes, it was so good. Much better than dinner which was normally catfish. My brother and I used to go to Sirianni's yearly pre-Christmas to buy a picture by this artist for my Mom. We loved Sirriani's anyway, but these trips where my brother would drive and we would have this time together was really special. I have so many food memories, my family is full of food memories. The last that really left an impression on me was my Mom's chicken fajitas and german chocolate cake (not eaten together although that would be like my prison last meal). My Mom was a great cook and made so many things well, cabonara, etc. But I love her chicken fajitas, this was always my stranded on a desert island with one food answer. There was just something about them that was so good. Maybe it was the old cast iron skillet they were made in, I'm not sure but they are soo good. Her German Chocolate Cake isn't unusual, in fact it is the recipe on the inside of the baking chocolate wrapper, but her homemade three layer german chocolate cake is like a miracle for the sole. Really I could just eat a big pot of the icing but the cake is wonderful too. It is gooey and perfect. She normally makes this for me on my birthday, it's always my request. My Aunt makes really good bread pudding souffle with whiskey sauce, but my Mom's german chocolate cake is just like all my perfect flavors in one. 3
marketfan Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Lots of formative food memories: But here are two that are linked. When I was a child (under 10) my mother used to try to serve calf's liver to me and pretend it was steak. But I could not chew it or swallow it-- it tasted dry and unpleasant and minerally and I literally could not masticate it and swallow it. And the worst was that I was salivating for that steak so the shock of the calf's liver was even worse. I still cannot abide calves liver. On the other hand, I adored my grandmother's chopped chicken liver. She chopped lightly sauteed chicken livers with tons of sauteed onions (drenched in schmalz) and hard-boiled eggs --using a mezzaluna in a wide, shallow wooden bowl that was only used for this dish. Salt. Pepper. I loved to watch her turn the bowl and chop over the ingredients until they turned into a wonderful mush. The onions, schmalz and eggs made the liver taste very rich and I never associated it with calf's liver. I don't remember any parsley but I add parsley and thyme now when I make it. I never saw her use a mezzaluna for anything else. One restaurant memory: The first time i had good Indian food was at Apana on M Street in Georgetown in 1977, I believe. I was overwhelmed by the combination of spices and flavors -- and I kept saying to my boyfriend: "this food is making love to my mouth." I went out the next day and bought Madhur Jaffrey's An Invitation to Indian Cooking but I was very frustrated because I could not replicate the amazing flavors with supermarket spices. Eventually, I discovered a small Indian spice store in Virginia and then I cooked almost nothing but Indian food for months. 2
porcupine Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 My favorite foods were mostly from my Amish Nanny- You've written about her before; the more you write the more I build a sense of her character in my mind. She must have been a remarkable woman.
astrid Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 I don't have a lot of positive food experiences when I was growing up. My family believed that they should feed their kids what they consider to be nutritious, no matter how much the kids hate it. So boiled liver, unsweetened hot milk, really hard boiled eggs, and goat stew all figured heavily in the childhood parade of food horrors. My grandmother was a decent cook, but the awful food definitely stood out more than any good food. A few of the more positive memories were: - watching hundreds of wantons cooling during the holidays - fishing for crayfish during one summer and eating crayfish everyday for weeks - first taste of a pineapple sorbet
ktmoomau Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 You've written about her before; the more you write the more I build a sense of her character in my mind. She must have been a remarkable woman. She is, she is a short stalky woman, her hair used to be jet black, but now it is gray. In her old age she has gotten some hair on her upper lip, but she doesn't really care about her appearance, she may have at one time. Her long hair always rolled into a bun and tucked into her bonnet is a lot thinner now since it grew back after chemo. She has this laugh that is halfway between a bird song laugh and a chuckle. So many sentences started with well.... She is such a happy person, full of warmth. She really was like a second Mother to me. She always wore teal or purple dresses, she liked color. She had some other colors, but those were her favorites. If you ever see an Amish woman walking in Georgetown it's probably her. She has to come down to NIH for check ups from time to time and likes to see DC. Her attitude on life has always been quite lasse-fair. She still watches children, and I am sure she is still quite good at it. She let you get into just enough trouble to let you be a kid, but not to get hurt in any way. But she believed that sometimes you needed to learn a lesson the hard way, so she let you make mistakes. Her touch in baking was so light though. She would make homemade doughnuts, when I would touch them the rise would collapse, but she could lightly toss them into the hot grease without them losing their puffy exterior. I was there from 3 months old until I went into Kindergarten and then was still there on all school breaks when my Mom had to work till I could be home alone. I was always embarrassed by that, so many other kids Mom's were teachers who stayed home in the summer and I was so jealous of that. But the work ethic that I learned from my Nanny is something I will never regret learning. Work wasn't a punishment it was just something that you had to do, things had to get done so you might as well learn to enjoy doing them. So it was just expected and you shouldn't complain. I can distinctly remember the bowls we would eat out of, some sort of resin substance in neutral colors and she had lots of Tupperware. When she lived alone before she married the Schwann man used to bring us ice cream and other treats, we loved that. Once she was married she watched less kids, mainly me so she had more time to make more things. Her Step Father was one of the heads of the sect in our area, he was a great woodworker. Her Mother was so small, even as short as I am, she is much more petite. Which is funny since all of her daughters are taller than her. Her one sister is beautiful and blonde. She tragically lost her son who was shot while his house was being robbed this past year. She also lost one of her daughters, the tragedies for that family have been great. Her other sister has nine children, all who lead such interesting lives. Her husband has a business driving wagons pulled by his beautiful horses, he has in particular two huge Clydesdale that are especially pretty. In the winter he takes people in a big white sled. He has always been fairly entreprenuial with some ideas working and some not, I think the sect probably gets a bit tired of him. His sons now run his farm which is probably a good thing, but he is a wonderful guy and his wife is so fun. I see their daughters from time to time who I loved to get to play with when I was little, that was a big treat as they were more my own age. I love hearing about what they are doing. My Nanny has three children, two girls and a boy, none married yet, which is a little strange for their age, but I think like her they are a very well something will happen or it doesn't type of family. I kind of feel like now it was the other kids who parents stayed home in the summer who got the raw end of the deal. My law school friends are fascinated by my Nanny and are itching to meet her. 3
SeanMike Posted May 15, 2014 Posted May 15, 2014 I had this memory the other day - I think it was my first trip ever to DC. My family came in to see the cherry blossoms and hit the museums (I still have an Air & Space museum poster that's dated September 1984-September 1985, so that time frame). I was so excited about astronaut ice cream... We went to an Irish restaurant one night. I'd never had that style of food before - growing up in Morgantown, WV, you either ate Italian or "country" style (fish sticks, for some reason, long cooked green beans, squirrel in gravy over mashed potatoes, Western Sizzlin' on special occasions). I had cottage or shepherd's pie or something like that and it blew me away, I'd never imagined a "meat pie". It was so cool! I wish I knew what the name of the place was. I can see the outside fairly clearly, but I had no idea of neighborhoods, or where we even stayed...but I remember that restaurant, and the Air & Space museum.
porcupine Posted July 10, 2014 Posted July 10, 2014 Growing up, I couldn't stand the taste of licorice or anise. Not liking the latter was a minor problem in my family, as every trip to visit family back near Pittsburgh involved pizzelle, and the trip back was always by way of a small Italian grocery store called DeLallo's, and Mom would always buy a package or four of pizzelle for the trip home (if relatives hadn't given us some), and my brother would tease me about not liking them... Sometime in my teen years I started liking anise a little. Early in our marriage Mr. P and I splurged on a dinner at The Inn at Little Washington. This was a major thing for us; we lived in an apartment, I had a low-paying job in a lab, he was a grad student. We really shouldn't have been spending money on something like that. But we went anyway. And then one of the palate refresher courses arrived: cream of fennel soup. Because of my aversion to licorice and anise, fennel was never on my radar. I'm not sure I was aware of its existence. Mom never cooked with it, and I don't think Giant or Safeway or A&P ever carried something so exotic. I remember thinking something like "great, fennel, that's like licorice, yuck, I hate licorice". And I also thought something like "here I am at this phenomenal (and phenomenally expensive) restaurant that I'll probably never be able to eat at again, I'm not saying "no" to anything". That soup was so good, so rich yet so delicate, the fennel flavor pronounced but not overwhelming, that it remains one of the best things I've ever eaten. Suddenly fennel was my favorite vegetable. It still is. I still hate licorice, though. 2
thistle Posted July 10, 2014 Posted July 10, 2014 I love reading this thread, & hearing about everyone's food memories. One of my strongest is that my Dad (who was an occasional enthusiastic cook) loved to fix breakfast on the weekends. Enough food for an army-bacon, sausages, home fries, eggs (& geez, I hated eggs), but I'd try to eat some, so he knew that I appreciated his cooking.
ktmoomau Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 Another funny story that somewhat involves my Amish Nanny. I am thinking of it now as the scent of pepperoni rolls permeates the condo. Pepperoni rolls are a Western Maryland and West Virginia tradition developed by the wives of Italian coal miners because they could take it into the mine and they don't spoil for days. They were known somewhat in Western Maryland too. I loved them. I was obsessed with pepperoni as a child. We used to stop at those little roadside deli/general stores in West Virginia while riding to and through and if they had it I would get a pepperoni sandwich. Mom used to make pepperoni rolls a lot back before she went back to work when I was born. Once I was born when we were having a big party, such as Autumn Glory, she would ask Ida to make them for her. Ida kind of became the pepperoni roll queen of Oakland because hers were very good. Plain whole wheat bread dough and stick of pepperoni (not slices). At Autumn Glory we have hordes of people in our homes and these are a staple to feed the masses at parade time and Ida would make them for really cheap, I would help her make big boxes of them. She started making them for other things too and other people. The Amish kind of liked them because you could easily take them out on a tractor when you were working. A few years back she was asked to speak for a group in Baltimore about traditional Amish foods and about the tradition of pepperoni rolls in Western Maryland. They asked about the pepperoni rolls. They asked her when she started making them. Her answer, "Oh well, Mikal probably first asked me to start making them in about 1985." But when did the tradition of making them start? "Well I guess the next year after that it became a tradition." And what makes an Amish pepperoni roll unique? "Nothing, I just make them the regular way. It's not really an Amish thing, Katie and Adam just really liked them so Mikal would have me make them." When did the Amish start making them? "Well I was probably the first person to do it." The poor woman who led the talk had no idea that it wasn't Amish and that it was just something that caught on when Ida started making them for a family originating from West Virginia. She was a bit embarrassed. Ida never noticed she just went on. They changed the subject to apple snitz or something. Now all my friends from law school know about pepperoni rolls. And a woman I work with is from the Smoke Holes and Franklin and I take some into work for her when I make them and now my office knows about them, my paralegal went to WVU and wants them too. The scent reminds me of her kitchen. We would have pepperoni rolls rising all over the house on pans then cooling after they baked on a huge sheet spread over the kitchen table. In so many ways I had a very sad childhood and in so many ways I had the happiest. I have often thought about writing a book about Ida. 4
porcupine Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 You should write a book about Ida, but first you should post her recipe for pepperoni rolls. :-) 2
ktmoomau Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 You should write a book about Ida, but first you should post her recipe for pepperoni rolls. :-) I should! Here is a picture of the pepperoni rolls made last night. They aren't Ida's recipe, as I didn't have the right type of flour for that. 2
DaveO Posted July 14, 2014 Posted July 14, 2014 The other day I had a hummus type spread at Bayou Bakery. Its made with pickled black eyed peas, uses cayenne red pepper and a Louisiana Hot Sauce, and a variety of other ingredients to create a Cajun taste. Quite good. It had me recall a vegetarian spread my mother made for several decades. She made it in lieu of chopped liver for various Jewish holidays, wanting to cut down on cholesterol. It became one of her signature dishes and her effort to combat cholesterol was ahead of her time. It was quite delicious. Over the decades she varied its design adding different spices to alter the taste. Very inventive. I really enjoyed Bayou Bakery's spread, but truth be told I'd pick my Mom's spread first, every day of the week. 2
thistle Posted July 16, 2014 Posted July 16, 2014 I love blackeyed peas, over almost any other legume. Your spread sounds great, I think a falafel w/ blackeyed peas would be a hit (I keep trying falafel, wanting to really LOVE it, but it hasn't happened yet).
curiouskitkatt Posted November 26, 2018 Posted November 26, 2018 On 4/23/2014 at 2:28 AM, Antonio Burrell said: I got to thinking as I do from time to time about the things that formed me as a person. From how I view life in general and more lately thinking about what formed the paradigm through which I see food. I thought it'd be interesting for all of us to exchange stories about what made us love food first. What memories do you tie to specific people and times, good or bad, funny or somber. Share them all. Let's all get back to what this community was founded on. Good food, good conversations about said food and meeting people who like the same shit you do. Everybody chime in and let's find out how similar we are. I'll start with two particular memories: 1) the love I have of fresh off the vine, perfectly ripe and warm tomatoes and cucumbers, washed and slice. Dressed simply with salt, vinegar and pepper if you wish. The tomatoes so juicy that it makes its own sauce with the vinegar. The salty bursting through in pockets, the cucumber so crisp, a quick pickle in its simplest. 4-5 things top all perfect. Love it. 2) I always associate bryers ice cream with my Grandfather Luther. My Granddaddy. Well when I was just a wee lass, my Grandaddy used to take me to the store and let me pick out a half gallon of icecream. In the beginning it was Pine State which was awesome and then later it got to be Breyers cause it's what replaced Pine State at the store. I always got to pick the flavor although sometimes he'd hint at something. It was usually chocolate or mint chocolate chip. Every night of my vacation to the farm, after my bath, he'd sit me on his lap next to the freezer in the dining room. It'd just be me and him by the light filtering in from the kitchen, eating ice cream, taking turns feeding each other and rapping about life. So that's the kinda stuff I'm talking about. You wanna share life shattering stories about some restaurant you visited that changed your life? Fine I guess but..snooze alert. I don't care about that stuff, we wanna know the real you. The online real you anyway. Share away peeps... This thread is an absolute gem. Thank you @porcupine for reminding me of how incredible all of the contributions are to DR! I have so many food memories, I'm not sure where to even start. I will start with sharing my theory on how I became one of coolest kids in school. I owe it all to my Mom, and her refusal to make what I obnoxiously called "American" food. I mean no offense by describing it that way. All of my friends were not Lao, and all I wanted was to be able to eat peanut butter and jelly with juice, but instead my Mom made sticky rice and lemongrass beef. She insisted I invite all the kids from school to our house for BBQ's and afterschool snacks. I remember being so embarrassed thinking that my school mates would turn their nose up to the smell of the food, and how different it was from what they normally ate. From the very moment my friends would walk into our home, I remember the sense of awe the kids had from just the aroma of the food cooking. Mom would explain to my friends that we were Lao and we eat with our hands. The kids could hardly wait to dig in. To this very day, I continue to give rice steamer baskets, and thip kaos as gifts to friends so that they can make sticky rice at home. There are times when I run into friends from elementary school, and to this very day, they remind me how much fun they had eating sticky rice and beef at our house. 4
zgast Posted November 27, 2018 Posted November 27, 2018 7 hours ago, curiouskitkatt said: This thread is an absolute gem. Thank you @porcupine for reminding me of how incredible all of the contributions are to DR! I have so many food memories, I'm not sure where to even start. And thank you for bringing this to the top of my unread content list. I actually teared up reading some of these descriptions from those who are far better writers than myself. If I had to do a Top 3 list, I'd describe the following: 1) Stuffed cabbage - There was never any question when it was stuffed cabbage day as soon as you walked in the house. Probably not authentic by any stretch (mom was a WASP from suburban Chicago) but man were these fantastic. Sauerkraut and tomatoes with a simply meaty stuffed cabbage. Everyone loved these in our house and whenever we made them one of my best friends insisted on getting a phone call and joining us - even through high school. He still posts on Facebook about my mom's stuffed cabbage and it was the first thing his wife told me about when I met her. 2) Chopped liver - It never even occurred to me that this was something that kids avoided. My Aunt Barbara (that's Jewish for 'older distant relative') and her mom made this every year for Thanksgiving and it was like crack on plain old Saltine crackers. I can't imagine the nutritional content here, but Thanksgiving was an annual tradition with so many memories that persist to this day - starting with chopped liver. And yes, as an adult, foie gras mousse is objectively better. Not sure which I'd go for first though. 3) Italian feasts - I'd always loved food and decided to study Italian for two key reasons. One - everyone loves Italian food, right? Second - everyone in Spanish 1 in college clearly had taken Spanish for several years - except for the two frigging Puerto Ricans who I spoke to after the class. I'm sure they never studied Spanish in high school. Anyhow, studying Italian led to a year in Bologna, which is still one of the most amazing experiences I've had. Weaving through the streets to maximize the smell of the macelleria on one street and the panetteria on another. The capstone of that whole adventure though was the wonderful Herb Market - an enclosed warehouse of various fruit, vegetable, meat and other stands. I could - and did - spend hours just walking through here, making friends with the stand owners, and buying absurd amounts of food to feed myself and my flat-mates. Makes you realize that much of what makes the food in Italy (or insert another country of your choice) is that the fresh produce, meat, fish, or dairy was grown or raised to maximize flavor, not for almost any other attribute. I may need to book a trip back just thinking about it. 1
curiouskitkatt Posted November 27, 2018 Posted November 27, 2018 10 minutes ago, zgast said: And thank you for bringing this to the top of my unread content list. I actually teared up reading some of these descriptions from those who are far better writers than myself. 2) Chopped liver - It never even occurred to me that this was something that kids avoided. My Aunt Barbara (that's Jewish for 'older distant relative') and her mom made this every year for Thanksgiving and it was like crack on plain old Saltine crackers. I can't imagine the nutritional content here, but Thanksgiving was an annual tradition with so many memories that persist to this day - starting with chopped liver. And yes, as an adult, foie gras mousse is objectively better. Not sure which I'd go for first though. My eyes welled up as well reading through the posts, and by the way, I love chopped liver.
NolaCaine Posted November 27, 2018 Posted November 27, 2018 My mother is a terrific cook. She gave me a copy of her cookbook. I tried a recipe and it didn't taste anything like her cooking. So I called her up and she went on to explain how she did this, and that, and doubled this thing and left this thing out. I took notes and all of my cookbooks have notes in them. My grandmother. She would, once a year, make gumbo (seafood only to be very clear). To celebrate her life and introduce my second child to the family, my cousin got a photocopy of my Mimi's gumbo recipe with her notes written on it. Counsin purchased all of the stuff for it, and a bunch of cousins spent the day making a HUGE pot of gumbo. It was so fun. I don't even know what my kids were up to at the time. Thanksgiving. Growing up three of my cousins and I all had birthdays Thanksgiving week and the feast would end with a birthday cake. Every Thanksgiving the host would make the bird, and everybody else would bring various sides. For some reason, when I "grew up" I insisted on making pretty much all of Thanksgiving until this year. This year, all I made was the bird and a soup. Guests brought the rest. I loved it. I felt that familiar joy of sharing and family memories. Gardening. Taught by parents. I do it. My kids do it and like mentioned up thread, we eat warm tomatoes and cucumbers off the vine. We are horrible gardeners but that's not why we do it. We do it for the warm tomatoes. The other stuff that grows is just lagniappe. Love this thread. 1 1
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