Tom Sietsema

4 hours ago, Kibbee Nayee said:

That was my question in his chat today.

His answer was a bit flip. He probably hasn't eaten at Mama Ayesha's in a while -- it has been reviving itself of late. And Lebanese Taverna may have over-expanded, but as I said, the flagship in Westover is a very good restaurant, and so is Tysons Galleria. I'm looking forward to his review of Me Jana.

He sort of confirmed my point....earlier in his chat, he was excited about going to a new Turkish restaurant, and his answer to my question indicated he hadn't eaten at a true Lebanese restaurant in quite a while.

In Sietsema's defense, he has quite an expansive food scene to cover in the DC metropolitan area, but I think I hit on a blind spot of his.

I was simply trying to answer as many questions as I could in the hour. Also: I based my assessment of MA's on two recent visits.

Not sure what the comment about "being busy and writing poorly" is referring to (me?), but allow me to address a few things.

1) Yes, the Washington Post is a huge platform. It's one of the most important publications in the world. I feel grateful every day that I get to write about a subject I care deeply about. I also feel a real responsibility to fairly and accurately cover the restaurant scene. To that end, I eat out about a dozen meals a week. I'm fortunate that my employer picks up the tab, but I never take that for granted. (Then again, the Post also pays White House reporters to fly first-class on Air Force One and sports writers to go to the Olympics. And on. It's part of our jobs.)

2) What sort of "checks and balances" are you suggesting? I have plenty of those already: editors, copy editors, online critics (including readers who can post comments following my reviews).  

3) Do I ever get things wrong? Of course. Have I ever made mistakes? For sure. But week in and week out -- decade in and decade out (scary thought for some of you, I know!) -- I hope there's some consistency and even (pleasant) surprise  to my work. Most people have very little idea what goes into this job. A lot of people think they can do it (reviewing in general) better. To them I say: have at it and see how easy it is.  I know I strive to be fair: I've given raves to people I know detest me and pans to people who don't.

4)  I have pretty tough skin. I can handle criticism -- and I've learned from it over the years. I don't shy away from negative feedback and in fact let people rant about me on my own food forum. It goes with the territory.  But I didn't go into this to win friends or curry favor with anyone. That's a losing proposition in criticism.

That's it for the moment.

If these people were newbies, I might have refrained from writing about the place. But they're veterans (and their previous place was good).

Regarding Don's post above, my chat isn't a "strategy," but a way to address readers' questions and comments in real time and in a more personal venue than print. I learn as much as I (hopefully) give in that hour every week. Just for the record, my "little corner" (as Don puts it) is the second best-read chat on the WP site (after Carolyn Hax) and enjoys a national, even international, audience. If it wasn't effective, I would have dropped it by now. But the regular give and take is one of the most important things I do.

I'm posting for the first time in years (?) because I get tired of being misrepresented. It's fine to disagree with my reviews or stories, but please, don't pretend to read my mind.

I think of this forum as a helpful Washington resource and have said as much over the years; indeed, I gave the site a shout out in my best American food cities series a couple years back. DR is one of the things that makes Washington a better food scene.

Just my two cents.

I wrote about R Family Kitchen because it's run by the same owners of the previous restaurant in that space, TapaBar, which I liked and considered to be a solid, two-star establishment. Also because I like to vary cuisine styles, price points and locations from week to week in my First Bite column. This is considered a preview, by the way, not a star-rated critique. I figured readers might be curious about TapaBar's replacement. I know I was.

I want to thank Tom for taking time out of his (very) busy schedule to join us.  Tom, you've been wonderful, and I think everyone really appreciates you having been here. 

For a final question, I'd like to touch on something few people know about you - your almost encyclopedic knowledge of the Titanic (the actual oceanliner).  Other than professional historians working directly with the subject, not many people know more about this than you do.  How did you become so fascinated with this subject, and just how much do you know about it?

And thank you again, Tom!

I'd like to thank all of YOU for the good questions! This is a smart crowd. I've really enjoyed my week here.

As for my interest in the Titanic ....

I was fascinated by disasters as a kid (hmmm, a harbinger of things to come?) I read everything I could about the Hindenburg, the Morro Castle, the Andrea Doria and so on. But I really fell in love with the story of the Titanic. Here was this supposedly unsinkable ship -- crowded with VIPS and the first with such luxuries as a swimming pool -- and it sailed for less than a week. There was so much glamour and mystery surrounding the ocean liner and its sinking.

When I was about eleven, my grandmother sent me a clipping from a Minneapolis paper with the photograph of Mrs. John Pillsbury Snyder on it. She was looking down at a model of the Titanic, used in a British movie but sold for display in a shopping mall in the Twin Cities. "It looks awfully small down there," she was reported to have said.

A survivor (practically) in my own backyard!

I wrote Mrs. Snyder, arranged to visit her in her mansion (she was a Pillsbury heiress) in Wayzata, Minn., and had my Dad drive me the three hours up there to do so. I was armed with a list of 100 questions, a tape recorder and some vintage 1912 books relating to the Titanic, which I had her sign.

It was a heady two hours for this pint-sized Titanic buff. Mrs. Snyder could not have been more gracious -- I was intimidated by the maid who answered the door if not the grand dame herself -- and she pulled out all her old scrapbooks and interviews dating back to 1912.

She and her husband were returning from a three-month honeymoon in Europe and were originally slated to come back to the States on a French liner. But when that ship was put in dry dock for minor repairs, they were encouraged to return on the maiden voyage of the Titanic.

Lots of irony: Mrs.Snyder had previously salied with the captain (Smith) and had had a bad experience. Leaving New York on another ship he was piloting, some ropes were connected to the dock and nearly ripped the thing asunder. So she had bad vibes about him from the get-go. And in Spain during her honeymoon, a fortune teller told her to "beware of the water' at all costs .... kinda creepy, huh?

Anyway, when the ship hit the iceberg, she and a bunch of other young newlyweds gathered on the deck to see what happened. Capt Smith came by and encouraged them to get into a lifeboat, just as a precaution and to set a good example for the other passengers. The women refused to go unless their husbands could accompany them -- and that's how Boat No. 7, the first lifeboat to leave the ship, departed with so many first-class males. Dorothy Gibson, a silent screen star of the era, was also in her boat. When the lifeboat hit the water, Mrs. Snyder recalled seeing a porthole slip beneath the water and realized the problem was serious.

Fearful of being sucked under the water should it actually sink, the occupants of Boat No. 7 rowed as far as they could from the ship. To their credit, they picked up survivors afterwards, however. The night was beautiful, with hundreds of brilliant stars in the sky and a glass-smooth sea, Mrs. Snyder told me. And she never forgot the alarms or the moan of the ship in its final death throes, when it raised out of the water, its lights blinking off, then on, then off, and the thing broke in half.

This is far more than any of you probably care to know, but obviously I still love the subject. My prized possession is a 1912 book on the sinking, signed "Mrs. J. P. Snyder, Survivor of the Titanic, Boat No. 7". Wonder how much THAT would go for on EBay?

Again, my thanks to you all for having me this week. It's been a real treat.

Hi Tom:

Thanks for taking the time to answer a multitude of questions from the many posters on this site.  I recall, a few months ago, some were upset that you reviewed Pazo, an establishment in Baltimore.  From what I read, the reason behind their angst was that you are a writer for a DC area paper, and they felt that you should focus your attention on the establishments with in D.C. proper and the surrounding suburbs.  Personally, I have no problem with you reviewing places that are within an hours drive, as if the food is good I would be willing to take the trip.  What was your take on the reaction of those that disagreed with you? Also, how often in a calendar year do you review restaurants that are not in the D.C. area?

I was baffled by the readers who got angry when I went to Baltimore to review a place because 1) I've done it before, 2) Pazo was worth people knowing about, and 3) Baltimore is less of a drive away than some of the Virginia restaurants I've written about. Given the reaction from a few vocal diners, you would have thought I went to Dallas for the Sunday! lol

I will continue to review those places in the greater Washington area that I feel are important or otherwise worth knowing about. Seventy percent of the Post readership resides in the suburbs, after all. And, in my defense, I heard from plenty of people who were happy to know about a good restarant option in Baltimore.

I was wondering if you ever include children among your dining companions.  

Flame wars about inconsiderate parents who allow their kids to run amuck aside,  the area has plenty of families with children.   Some of those families are trying to raise the next generation of fine diners.   We have a vested interest in making sure there is a next generation of them, or we are going to be condemned to corporate chain dining in our dotage.  

Dining with a child changes your perspective.  The pacing of service,  detail and accuracy of dish descriptions on the menu, and availability of one or two dishes that aren't too fussy (and yet aren't the @)*$# chicken fingers) become much more important.   The kind of service you get from the restaurant staff can change a lot, too.   Some places bend over backwards to make your kid feel welcome, and they aren't necessarily the ones you'd expect to do so.   For example, Matsuri Sushi and Sake bar in Herndon has a kid's sushi platter (no raw fish) and provides crayons.  It is one of my five year-old's most frequently requested dining destinations.   The same concerns will probably hold true until she is in her mid to late teens.

As the parent of a restaurant friendly child, I find most dining reviews fall a bit short.   I can generally decide, based on the review, whether I'd like to eat there.  But they leave me wondering whether the restaurant is going to be a good place to go as a family.

I eat out with a mix of people -- young/old, straight/gay, Caucasian/non-Caucasian, single/married -- and do in fact include kids in some of those visits.

It's interesting to see their different perspectives -- how loud places affect my older acquaintances, for instance, or how vegetarians try to navigate a steak house menu. I write for a general audience and try to think about the needs and concerns of a diverse group of readers as I make my rounds.

Thanks for your suggestions. I'll be keeping my eyes open for coloring books, high chairs and things other than chicken nuggets on the kiddie menus!

Tom,

Do your editor's edit the archive version of the chat after it is done?  I could have sworn I saw something about Cesare leaving Tosca in the archive about an hour after yesterday's live chat.

I went back to reread last night and it was not in the column.

My assumption is that it was in the live version, and an editor found out it was not accurate and removed it from the archive.

Good assumption or am I just losing it.

The text of my weekly chat is archived as it appears online. There is no "after hours" editing (sometimes much to my chagrin).

Cesare is NOT leaving Tosca. I don't believe I wrote anything like that. He is NOT advising the team at the fledgling Extra Virgin any longer, however. Maybe that's the update you recall seeing.

Hey Tom,

It's great to see you here!

Here are my (more than likely overlapping) questions:

How do feel that online media, blogs and forums like this one have most affected how you do your job these days or even your writing style? 

(For example, do you ever feel pressure to review a place sooner than you might have in the past because of the inevitable buzz has already generated on a blog or website? ) There most be days you truly resent the convergeing media!

To which U.S. cities would you steer an epicurean friend on a summer vacation this year ? 

Where and what do you think D.C. lacks the most as a dining town? 

Where would you like to see yourself in 10 years from now?

1) First, I think competition is healthy. Having more than one voice weighing in on restaurants is a GOOD thing. The myriad blogs have not really changed the way I write or cancelled out the rule I try to maintain about waiting a month or so to review new restaurants. But I DO like to be first with news about chef changes, restaurant closings, etc. in the Weekly Dish, and I sometimes feel at a disadvantage in reporting those things, because I'm tethered to print deadlines. If something big happens on a Tuesday, I have to wait until the next week to write about it (in the Food section), unless I choose to highlight the scoop in my online chat the next day.

I do find myself spending more and more time surfing the net and reading or scanning food and restaurant sites -- and spending less time reading the big food magazines. There's more originality online than in print right now.

2) Anyone who is serious about food should make a point of visiting Barcelona, Madrid, San Francisco, Chicago and Las Vegas (yes, Vegas!) -- among other interesting restaurant destinations. I was underwhelmed on my last trip to Paris earlier this year. Spain is really where it's at right now, in terms of setting the agenda for food fashions.

3) My wish list includes more serious wine bars, more dessert-only venues, more moderately-priced "neighborhood" spots (along the lines of Hank's Oyster Bar or Jackie's in Silver Spring) and more places that do proper breakfasts throughout the week. It would be nice to have a good Argentinean restaurant, something representative of Sweden.

4) Gosh, who knows? I really like what I'm doing now. But this is the longest I've ever stayed in one position and I get bored easily, so I need to challenge myself on a regular basis.

Tom -

First, to echo the peanut gallery, thanks for taking the time with us to answer a few questions from inquiring minds.  My question centers on your anonymity.  What happens when you're in a social setting and you're chatting with someone who asks your name?  Do you withhold your last name?  If not, have you ever slipped up and introduced yourself to someone who works in the restaurant industry or a related field thus potentially blowing your cover?

Ha! I rarely use my full name when I'm introduced in Washington, because when I do, the typical reaction is "I want your job!" or something similar -- followed by 15 minutes of the usual questions: What's your favorite restaurant? Do you wear disguises? How often do you eat out? Can I tag along? and so on and so forth.

Don't get me wrong, I love what I do, but I would rather talk about somebody else's profession than my own.

Every once in awhile, I'll meet a waiter or a restaurant manager in a social setting, but I try to steer clear of functions where that might happen. I never go to restaurant openings or press receptions, for instance.

Hi Tom, thanks for being such a good sport and participating in this forum and on your weekly chats.  About some Chowhounds not liking you, I think it may have to do with the fact that almost all of your recommendations during chats and weekly reviews of restaurants are focused on more expensive restaurants.

While I understand your predicament of wanting to only recommend good places which often correlates into higher priced establishments, a few recommendations of cheaper places would be very welcome. 

Now I know cheaper is a relative term and DC restaurant eating can be pretty expensive, but in my mind a cheaper restaurant would be one where most entrees were in the $10-19 range.  These restaurants exist in DC and lots of them have pretty good, if not great food. These restaurants might not be destinations where foodies flock (the only exception I can think of is the bar at Palena which I know you regularly recommend) but are good neighborhood restaurants that DC residents want to know about so they can eat at them regularly instead of relying on take-out.

So while I will continue to appreciate your reviews of the high-end tables of the DC areas, think more about the price range of restaurants especially in your chats. There have been a number of times where someone asked for a reasonable priced restaurant and they recommended a restaurant in the $25+ entree range.

Thanks for listening to my (and all of our comments) and please let me know if you think my request is unreasonable. I love to hear your take on the lower priced restaurants of DC.

Duly noted, sir! Thanks for the helpful feedback.

I probably do a better job highlighting inexpensive places in my Magazine and Food section columns than I do in my online chats, because in the rush (and crush!) on Wednesday mornings, I sometimes forget about a good hole-in-the-wall or two. But I'm conscious of that now. Did you notice I mentioned Kotobuki as a cheap but quality source for sushi, and the Spy Museum for its kid-friendly menu, in yesterday's discussion? I hope to include plenty of cheap-to-moderate places in my fall dining guide, too.

Starting early as we're going to Saratoga this weekend.

Tom,

Thanks for joining us.

One issue that has come up around here is the proper role or place of online fora such as this. There are several interlinked issues.

1) Most of us have neither the time nor the money to visit a restaurant several times before pronouncing our judgement. For example, after one lunch at Cafe Spice in Gaithersburg, I panned it here and decided that I was never going back. Too harsh? Should I have withheld judgement? How to overcome the, "it might have just been an off day" problem?

2) As part of the traditional food media, what do you see the role of these types of fora being? Are we the new reviewers? Are we information gatherers for real reviewers? Are we nothing more than self-obsessed "hipster foodies" with an overly developed sense of our own importance?

3) Given that no more than a couple of hundred people in and around DC read any of the online food forums and a half-million read the Post, should chefs even care that we exist? Some participate here, some lurk, some are disdainful in keeping away, some are downright hostile to the very existence of places like DonRockwell.com.

Thanks again for joining us.

1) I've been doing this for so long, I can almost (almost) predict how many stars a place is going to get based on one visit, a visit where I can sample at least four or more dishes. BUT, I've been surprised -- pleasantly and unpleasantly -- enough times that I would hesitate to really praise or damn a restaurant based on a single experience. Even good restaurants have off days and even bad restaurants can occasionally turn out a decent meal, you know?

2) I've been On The Other Side before, when I was writing reviews online for Microsoft, and I loved it! I could beat print competition with truly up-to-the-minute scoops and my audience, while smaller, was more focused. (At the Post, I write for a general audience, albeit a big one: the Sunday paper has over a million subscribers.)

I applaud the creators of the various food sites and blogs -- chowhound, egullet, donrocks, etc. -- and I think they help keep "traditional media" on their toes. But frankly, I do most of my own homework. When I'm out in the burbs for a review, for instance, I almost always stop in the 'hood to check out the dining scene, to see what's new. I talk to a lot of people, regular diners and industry types.

The one thing I find lacking online is a sense of who most of the contributors are -- what makes them creditable/responsible/fair. Whether you agree with the critic of a major print publication or not, that critic has probably spent years grooming for his/her job and his/her bio and background tend to lend some authority to his/her work. I see a lot of erroneous information on the myriad food sites, too -- about restaurants, about chefs, about moi! -- which just lends major pubs more credibility. I check out rumors for my columns that appear in print, to see if they're true or not. I fact-check and double fact-check. It's a lot of work, believe me, but it's the responsible thing to do.

3) Chefs should care that you and other chatters exist. I know I do. I mean, part of my job is to keep abreast of what people are thinking about, food-wise, right? But the internet means that everyone can be a food critic these days. And I'm not sure everyone who posts a thumbs up or a thumbs down is qualified to do so. Like I said, there's a lot of misinformation out there and unless I know where a poster is coming from, what his background is, I'm reluctant to trust him. Unless, of course, I follow that poster's comments for awhile and know him to be reliable or at least consistant.

Thanks for being here this week, Tom.

I read your column and your chat religiously. 

However,  I am not sure that I really know who you are.

Therefore please answer the following questions.  Answer them correctly and I will never question your recommendations.  Ever. 

What is your favorite book?

What is your favorite movie?

What/who is your favorite band/recording artist?

If you could live anywhere in the world where would you live?

What is your favorite ice cream flavor?

What is your favorite tv show?

What was your favorite class in school?

I love anything by Anne Tyler. The nonfiction book that gave me the most

pleasure in recent years was TRUMAN.

"Wizard of Oz" is up there. It's really not a kid's movie at all. Lots of life information packed therein. Hitchcock's "Rear Window" is another gem. Was Grace Kelly sexy or what? I know I'll think of others.

I'm a jazz fan. I like swing and big band, too, possibly because my dad played bass when he was in the USMC. One of the great joys in my life was meeting Ella Fitzgerald through Natalie Cole, whose brother was a close friend of mine out in California. I'm a secret country western admirer as well.

I'm living exactly where I want to be living. I love Washington. But Barcelona and San Francisco are pretty amazing cities, too.

It depends. Sometimes it's pistachio, other times it's caramel.

I love The Simpsons, Six Feet Under, Sopranos and (don't tell anyone) the

occasional episode of Cops.

History and English.

Hi Tom,

Welcome aboard!  My question is this: are there times when you'd rather be home just eating beeny-weeny or mac and cheese than out being force fed foie gras by some ambitious chef?

Cheers!

Mark

I have to say, my complaints about this job are relatively few. But yes, there are times when I would rather not be in a suit eating tortured food an hour away from home. There are times I'd love to be eating a simple bowl of pasta and watching the evening news in my boxers.

You know what I get tired of most? The relentless socializing. I spend an average of 40 hours a week EATING and TALKING and sometimes I dream of having a normal eating routine at home. The funny thing is, I always get hungry again and I almost always look forward to where I'm going, and the company I'm about to keep.

I prefer the company of architects, lawyers, journalists and just about anyone who isn't a foodie. No offense, but foodies can become REAL tedious REAL fast.

Hi Tom,

First, I wanted to thank you for being such a delightful and intelligent writer. So many restaurant reviewers simply lack the writing talent and make the most intriguing restaurant sound like the recitation of the multiplication tables. Second, thank you for including my gripe about people who call for Restaurant Week reservations during dinner rush hours, it earned me lots of points

I would adore it if you could comment on what isn't really a question but an observation about your work that I heard from one of the major restaurateurs in town.

He said that he loves your restaurant review column for the same reason that many of us do. At the same time, he felt that in your Wednesday chat, you shift roles and become a sort of a consumer/customer advocate instead of remaining an objective restaurant reviewer which he feels you should be. In this way, he believes your credibility suffers. What do you think?

Second, can you think of a less pretentious equivalent of "foodie"?

Finally - I am sure you dealt with this many times - how would you go about converting friends who see food as fuel to someone who can appreciate food for the joys it brings to the palate? Or do you feel that this sort of thing is in the blood?

Thank you for visiting.

Question One: In my "Ask Tom" reader-service column in the Magazine, I have all the time I need to investigate restaurant complaints. Those items, in which I introduce a gripe and try to resolve it (or at least shed some light), often involve lots of telephone conversations with both the diner and the restaurant in question. (Just ask someone who has been there. I ALWAYS aim to present both sides of an issue.)

You'd be AMAZED at how some people's stories change from the time I get a

complaint to the middle of my investigation. ("Oh, so you threw your pie at your server when she rolled her eyes at you? Uh, you didn't mention that in your email" ....) I don't publish a lot of complaints I receive simply because they end up not being accurate, or the recollections of the parties involved are so different, there's no way I could declare a winner without having been a witness to the "crime." Further, I insist that readers allow me to print their names and cities. That weeds out a lot of folks who might want to ruin a chef's reputation or whatever, from the safe perch of anonymity.

I get 400 + emails an hour (from around the world) on my live chat and I do the best I can. It ain't easy, trying to think of a fair response and keeping things moving in a live forum. I'm the only major restaurant critic in the country who puts himself out there on a regular basis, and I've made my share of slips. But I'd rather host the forum than not host the forum. I think it's a valuable reader service, a link to readers. I love the connection. While my main responsibility is to diners, I aim to be fair to the restaurant industry. Indeed, I have great admiration for the people who devote their lives to feeding and entertaining us.

Question two: Another term for foodie? "Chowhound?" JUST KIDDING. (Those people don't like me, for whatever reason, even though I'm in their camp.)

Fresser, maybe? Let me ponder that ...

Question three: Boy, that's tough! I think I've converted a few "food-is-fuelers" over the years, in part by introducing them to the joys of the table --- good friends, good vino -- and keeping the food simple. I other words, I'd ease them into the experience with unfussy food in unstuffy environs and work from there. Does that make sense?

Tom, thanks for meeting our merry group in cyberspace.  My question is how do you manage to sample a number of dishes for a review without tipping off the establishment that it's you?  Do you go in with a group and have a bite of what others order at your table, or do you surrrepticiously grab a forkfull off of some other unwitting patrons plate ? (I'll bet there is a really simple answer that will make me smack myself in the forehead and say "doh!'.)

Keep in mind, I go three or more times to a restaurant, so there's no pressure to try everything in a single visit.

I mix up the way in which I taste what comes to the table. Sometimes, my friends and I pass plates (which tends to drive haute restaurants nuts. You should have seen the looks I got in Paris!). Other times, I might ask someone to put a taste of whatever on my bread plate. And some times, I've been known to poke my chopsticks into a neighbor's plate, for a quick in-and-out taste.

The bottom line: I want to blend into the scene as much as I can. Too much passing of plates raises suspicions, I've learned.

Tom:

I'll add mine to the list of thanks for taking the time to do this chat. 

Here goes:  I'm not the only one to notice a recurrent theme in your Wednesday morning online chats at the Post website.  It seems that every week, one restaurant or another takes a turn "in the barrel."  By that I mean, one restaurant seems to get singled out for what some might call particularly harsh treatment.  It seemed to start with Ray's the Steaks, Restaurant Eve took a turn and most recently it was visited upon Charlie Palmer Steak.  While I don't believe for second that there is any planning involved, I'm curious as to the rationale, if any, for this theme.  If it continues, some of us might start a weekly "pool" on who the next "victim" will be.

Ha! There is, in fact, no grand scheme to put a given restaurant on the hot seat every Wednesday.

I think what happens is this: Someone complains about a place at the top of the hour, then other chatters weigh in with THEIR gripes about the restaurant -- gripes that hopefully are based on personal experience and not hearsay. Three, then four, then seven posts later, it looks like a restaurant is being put through a spanking machine.

I guess I need to do a better job of limiting the number of gripes per restaurant.

Hi Tom,

Thanks for joining us.

A complaint about  *certain* annual food guides such as this one:  for example only is that they are slow to update – it is the same or similar review year after year even when a place has obviously gone downhill or uphill. 

How often will you go back to check that your former reviews are still accurate?  For instance, will it be sooner if you get word that something has gone seriously downhill or uphill, and will the star rating be updated on the website more than annually if that turns out to be the case? 

Thanks.

An aside: One of the great things about writing critiques for Microsoft (does anybody recall the late online entertainment site, Sidewalk.com?) was the ability to instantly update a restaurant review. I miss that at the Post.

Still. While the Sunday Magazine publishes about 50 times a year, I try to use the space I have to accomodate more than news of only 50 dining establishments. Have you noticed that I've been serving up more double reviews? Most recently, for example, I wrote about W Domku and Leopold's in a single column.

I make it a point to drop by previously-reviewed restaurants as much as my time and expense account allow. If there are major changes, I might re-review a place, as I did with Kinkead's and Vidalia. Otherwise, I can write about any new findings on my weekly Wednesday chat. For the past three months, I've been returning to favorite places to see if they are worth inclusion in the fall dining guide, which comes out in October. (Sad truth: I'm dismayed about how many sure bets aren't so sure anymore!)

Stay tuned. I have a few ideas for expanding restaurant coverage, but I have to get a green light from The Powers That Be before I can start.

Hi tom, thanks for joining us!

Other than DC restaurants serving wine at the wrong temperature (we all know how you hate that!) and cleaning tables with windex what are some service problems that you see over and over again eating around town...if you could hire yourself out as a service consultant what recommendations would you make.

Some of my pet peeves include: waiters who make up answers to questions; being put on endless hold on the phone when I'm making a reservation; restaurants that don't take reservations; not being allowed to sit down until all my party is accounted for; servers who can't "read" a table (as in, knowing whether diners want to interact with them or not) ..... and on and on. I see the good, the bad and the ugly every day, it seems.

Restaurant owners should insist on having their staffs actually taste the entire menu; give them the power to "make nice" at a table that is having problems (that is, without having to consult a higher authority); encourage them to experience BOTH sides of a given operation (work a shift answering phones/making salads/tending bar); offer instruction on wine -- how to describe it, pour it, etc.

The tone of a restaurant is invariably set by the owner or chef. To see him or her is (generally) to know what to expect of a restaurant.

I'm becoming more-and-more tormented by the harsh reality of the exact same dish going through more metamorphoses than a character in a Franz Kafka novel, and I'm talking about the exact same dish, in the same restaurant, but on different evenings.  I'm becoming convinced that the most important thing is who happens to be slinging your hash on any given night, and that it's nearly impossible to judge a restaurant without visiting it, seriously, ten times if you're going to be bold enough to discuss and scrutinize individual plates of food for the reader.  Case in point:  this evening I had two dishes at a hot new restaurant that were almost unidentifiable as the exact same things I had not two weeks ago.  How do you account for such inconsistencies within a restaurant when reviewing it?

(I wanted to lob you a softball such as "what do you eat on your days off," but I thought this would make for a more vervant prelude...)   

First, I'd like to thank (the beloved and feared) "Rocks" for having me on his show. I relish the give and take of forums such as this one, and I welcome all questions and comments, be they soft or hard.

How to evaluate a restaurant where the same dish varies from meal to meal?

Some background: At the Post, I have the luxury of visiting a restaurant as many times as I deem necessary before I write about it. Generally, that means I experience a place at least three and as often as six or more times.

For the Weekly Dish column, I visit right away to give readers a snapshot of a fresh face. These previews tend to focus on the who, what and where aspects of the business. They tend not to be too critical, yet I don't shy away from writing about looming icebergs floating in the path of a maiden restaurant (see my column on the fledgling Old Homestead Steakhouse in Bethesda, for instance).

Then, I wait a month or so to let a restaurant settle in before I begin the formal process of reviewing a place for the Sunday Magazine. (So much can change between opening day and week No. five, as you might expect!) During visits No. 3 or No. 4, I might re-order a dish that was previously terrific or terrible, to check for consistency. Dishes might be made differently for a variety of reasons: maybe they were prepared by two different cooks, who see the recipe differently; maybe the dishes are different due to customer feedback. It just depends.

The job of a critic is to take all those meals, all that information, and offer a forecast of sorts. It isn't always easy, but multiple meals and a couple of retastings help make for better assessments.