I'll go where I like; that's not your call. Don't like me not dressing up someplace? *You* don't go there. Or not.
If I don't like the dress code, I won't go there. If the dress code is not strict, I'm sure as hell not worrying about fashion. Fashion is shallow and silly.
It's ironic that you talk about "projecting" here, when you're judging others.
Where did I say that I do that?
Also, nice to meet you.